When I hear 'Gay' many things and ideas come to mind: Hot & sexy first of-course, an outcast!, an endangered people hiding from the public eye and those they love. Makes one want to break down into tears and want to send aid, as is popularly done to hungry Africans by every caring soul! Bless their souls.
Ahem as I had intent to say earlier it's such a pity that in our time and age we haven't been able to look past basic differences in our physic, creed or even orientation! 21 centuries after beginning of time we are still side-lining our brothers and sisters that seem to be different from what we believe is the 'Norm'
It's this reason that worsens the situation and heightens the trauma that exists with the less liberal minded among us. I thought I knew what the Gay people go through in their day-to-day activities but I DON'T! You might think juggling up a double life and coming up with excuses every-time you are got red-handed behind closed doors at work with a colleague or the naive coffee boy! Yeah,don't get surprised love the stats are out! Anyway apart from the throwing back of shoulders in a bid to bulge the chest,announcing your masculinity or the obvious stifle when a hot guy happens to grace the offices or during a lunch with colleagues, there's a lot of extremes that Gay people have to go through just to hide their preference and to prove themselves 'Normal'
Recently I got word that the situation is very bad, especially in Africa. Some boys are forced to have intercourse with a girl in the open while his 'friends' look n and confirm his masculinity! Absurd? I know. If you wanna to pity some of us then consider how many of us are forced to marry just to portray a 'normal' family and graceful marriage. Others are even forced to make a public announcement to clarify an 'alleged' unusual friendship with a male friend. Such a pity not to the victims but to those still in constraints of ignorance. Take for example the kind of mess Prince Andrew is in just for having a close friend by the name Jeffrey Epstein, a US financier who was very close to our prince.(Get more on this Royal affair in the next post)
Makes one wonder what are we to do? What solution is there? Run around hiding from the public-eye or live life for what it is and see how it goes? I would like to see the day everyone will get the rare fortune called 'Brain'. Personally I think people should mind their own business.
For those of us who want and find the idea crazy or impossible can get some nice advice in the book My Child Is Gay: How Parents React When They Hear the News
Ahem as I had intent to say earlier it's such a pity that in our time and age we haven't been able to look past basic differences in our physic, creed or even orientation! 21 centuries after beginning of time we are still side-lining our brothers and sisters that seem to be different from what we believe is the 'Norm'
It's this reason that worsens the situation and
Recently I got word that the situation is very bad, especially in Africa. Some boys are forced to have intercourse with a girl in the open while his 'friends' look n and confirm his masculinity! Absurd? I know. If you wanna to pity some of us then consider how many of us are forced to marry just to portray a 'normal' family and graceful marriage. Others are even forced to make a public announcement to clarify an 'alleged' unusual friendship with a male friend. Such a pity not to the victims but to those still in constraints of ignorance. Take for example the kind of mess Prince Andrew is in just for having a close friend by the name Jeffrey Epstein, a US financier who was very close to our prince.(Get more on this Royal affair in the next post)
Makes one wonder what are we to do? What solution is there? Run around hiding from the public-eye or live life for what it is and see how it goes? I would like to see the day everyone will get the rare fortune called 'Brain'. Personally I think people should mind their own business.
For those of us who want and find the idea crazy or impossible can get some nice advice in the book My Child Is Gay: How Parents React When They Hear the News
