Gay Party glamour

Gay Party glamour
I can't quite explain it as yet, but there's something about Gay parties that is just a blast of pleasure. Such is only seen when you crashing ur way into a cookie just to get to the middle soft chocolaty part, and you end up feeling as if a mug of pleasure has been emptied into your tummy, leaving you drooling with the stuff. Eyes rolled back, body trembled with pleasure...... Yes! such are the Gay parties!
      As tales from my old man go, the Gays crystallized the magical 70's, cracked it and gave a piece to all & sundry for memory's sake; after all they are the reason 'magical' is in the catchy phrase. The pomp, colour, audacity & wit characterized their demeanor and infected everyone. The knowing & unknowing alike, so much so that the picture that pops up when we think of that time is one of a partial cross dressed, partial nude & wholly audacious Gay /trans man or 'lady' for those of us who would rather maintain the titles.
       In this modern age the same is prevalent! Showing that little or nothing has changed from back then. Still the party goes on, late into the night, lines are still crossed when it comes to dressing, boundaries not withstanding. If anything U saw recently is anything to go by, in a local bar hosting one of those rare Gay parties.

"Hey there hot stranger......" immediately stole my attention to the three fine twinks who had just approached me.

"you must be new here, I've never seen you around... " the middle one said fluently before I could squeeze in a response to the pleasurable assault.

"if you'd like, we could show you around......." the trio now seemed to work in unison as they tightened their circle. And I could swear the one on the right winked at me while the other bit his lip.

    The three were well adorned, beautiful, if I may say and not for lack of better words. That was enough to open my eyes to the glamour that it still Gay Parties!!
Sad that the fete can't be enjoyed in some countries, but a huge round of applause to the resilient party freaks that manage to sneak in just the enough measure of flare, drama and shazam!
      Recent news from East Africa of Gays being bashes and hunted by the government. Some of the brutally named are Uganda & Kenya mostly, hope they live on strong & strong(check for more updates on the same)
       On the flip side back to the USA, Nevada & Idaho just legalised Gay marriages & left people agape when the Senator proposed to his hubby, quickly turning into a Gay Public figure! Indulge yourselves on the same here

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Gay hunk versus Gay money?

What would you do if u were in a similar predicament?
"Scenario: This is Russell. Russell is smart,honest,loyal, funny, a great sense of humor, a hopeless romantic, an awesome cook, keeps his home spotless, a great handyman, is a man of faith who loves hard, has his own place, is a single parent who takes care of his child, loves to spoil his boyfriends & wants to take you on a date.
On the flip side lives in a Section 8 home, gets $600 a month in Food Stamps, uses public transportation or his grandmother's car, spends a lot of time playing video games, doesn't have a steady job, can have temper issues, loves to drink & has to go out to the club/bar every weekend or at least twice a month.
Would you go out on a date with him? "


Gay on Gay Bashing........

        It's always funny how different we are all over the world n yet tend to have an unceasing tendency of similarity. Often we hate each other on account of our variety but in real sense we are so alike it hurts, one  would pray for something new, a new variety. The case at hand has been one that's uniquely close to our in the Queer community! Wide as we may be and as different as may be our backgrounds & surroundings, there are some cases that keep following us despite it all. Such a case that has recently caught my sight, all over is one of Gay cons, thieves, black mailers & muggers.
         Cases of these crimes have been prevalent in numerous societies from time immemorial. From the surface it doesn't show or proof to be as widespread but the real stories beneath the covers are as dirty as the word itself. Recently my attention was attracted to the situation when I bumped into an online post reporting such a case: the case was in East Africa an urban neighborhood where a group of young Gay men conspire to wreck havoc on their unsuspecting counterparts. The cases are vividly described and some of the victims giving evidence of money transfers & pictures of the assailants. The stories start as easily as a simple innocent search for a date/hook-up  in the social networks, an area where most Queer folk thrive due to public bashing. Meetings are scheduled and the lovebirds have a wonderful time out..... One thing leads to another and they end up heading out to the unsuspecting dupe's home. This is where all hell breaks loose, and the victim finds himself at loss;either drugged waking up hours later or held down and threatened to give all among others......
         This might have taken place recently but it doesn't mean it's unique to the upcoming African States, it's all too common in the West too. Anyway I tried to critically look into the whole psychology affecting the cases, why the young Gays are so untrustworthy and such liars. I am not pointing to the normal guy lies, am talking of the almost pathological lies the Gay man is associated with.... So bad that most of the time you mention 'Gay community' most people would quickly think of all the deceit that stems from that society. Tarnishing the whole community's image on the face of society. Why? Why is that so?
       The 'Gay men magazines' has come up with part of the most pressing issue affecting the Gay community in every society; not saying they are the only ones!
   1.The Gay man has been subjected to a lot of hate & discrimination from society &  even worse their own family. As a result the gay man ends up feeling alone all through their lives, hence whatever decision they make is tempered with a tinge of self-preservation. The end product is a man who would think of himself before any noble or un-noble cause.
   2. Gayism has been magnified to something it's not! It has since changed from just a sexual preference to a lifestyle, pardon, more of a disease that no one wants to be associated with. Some people are thieves, some are conmen but when one is mentioned to be GAY...... It's woooow how dare he? How could he be? Now I ask, why is that so? Why is it such a big deal to be a Queer man? If one is born and naturally grows into being Gay, then why is it so foreign to find an aged Queer man? I don't know whether it's religious brain wash, or general myopia or maybe just moving by the general waft.
3. The Gay community is usually a small society, closely knit, where everyone knows everyone. From a background of hiding and deceit, most of the individuals get into this society and plunge for the first time into a cosy existence. And as ignorant as they are they delve into it head-first, often falling into 'not so good' behaviors and tendencies. 

Sad thing is that whatever bad tendencies they develop they practice them on the same people they are around! Making a very ugly picture of the Gay community. Hence the Gay on Gay Bashing prevails in such crude ways as these. Sad truly sad.

LGBTI stand together!

Bring him out...

    Meek, quiet, reserved and humble were the attributes that were well
en route of how people saw me. I was THAT BOY, the one that caused many to wonder and at times worry about. I never minded such attention,
after all it seemed perfectly placed as I was a shoe-in for it.
   I can't really tell from when it all started, but it was the realest
thing to me to date. A deep seated feeling of loneliness, a solitude
like no other. Like an orphan, but more of a natural origin; as if I,
at some point Veered off the path to normalcy to limbo.
Time was just frozen, nothing mattered highly not in a spiteful
way, it just was! It was like my insides were all pulled out, leaving
a gaping hole of grey. That was till he came around, something
dropped, something shifted within. I couldn't tell what was happening
but my eyes were drawn to him, I would then be stern on myself after
realizing am halfway, headed straight for him!
I had long gotten used to being called 'Zombie', 'cyborg' and
all other names that indicated lifeless-ness. My life had a good
routine, I wake up, get breakfast and head out to my average student's
life. In the evening, I would watch a movie or something and head on to my
uneventful night. I was contented, no desires hence the concern from
my folks.
   They must have had their eyes opened! Like I was just
having, I thought. A sudden infusion of 'wants' and 'have to have
   He was just vivacious, all over the place. This was the
first person that seemed to not have any worries. Always smiling,
glad, an inner serenity like none other. There was just something
extra intriguing about him that got me thinking. He made me want, he
made me crave; he got me to realize my desires. Not a stifling
craving, or an uncomfortable one. A quiet hunger for something, a
silent ember within threatening to blaze. I had just gotten my
curiosity back! I was going to get to know Maurice.
As I stayed up in my bed that night I thought of the chances
that kind of thing happening. I wondered how many people across the
globe were currently in my position. Thinking of a family friend
sleeping in the same house. I must have chuckled and pushed the
thought away like a thousand times, I finally decided obsession was
dangerous for me.
I needed to cool down, a cold glass of water would do it. I
jumped out of bed still lost in my thoughts. I almost bumped into it,
the ominous silhouette right outside my door, as if awaiting my exit.
My eyes couldn't help but notice the shape of the striking image that
was now coming to life. A slight, gentle push on my chest was enough
to make me let him in. An embodiment of a Greek god, with even
chocolate completion all over. I was frozen by the beauty, dimly lite
by the sodium street light streaming through my curtains.
Just as earlier I found myself closer and closer to him. Gently
caressing the soft muscles at my disposal. A gentle kiss on my lips
and we were in bed devouring each other.
"you ready?"
was the only pause, quickly ended by a quick node. I smiled all the way......

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   Michael Johnson also moonlighted as "Tiger Mandingo" in Gay strip clubs. This college wrestler was caught and is being charged in the state of Missouri for knowingly infecting unknowing people with the deadly HIV. The former wrestler who was also an exotic dancer to Gay men, was taking Videos of some of his XXX exploits from his Dorm room at Lindenwood University in St.Charles. The story has shocked many people which raises the fear of infection from lovers and partners.
   The Prosecutor admits the discovery of 32 videos of the accused engaging in unprotected XXX activity. His partners seemed unawares of his HIV status an even less of the fact that they were being recorded. This goes to show how The Gay Man has been corrupted and is being taken advantage of. The dangers facing The Gay Man don't just end here, it seems to be increasing as is seen in this case, a college student many didn't even know as Gay, moonlighting as an exotic dancer and infecting people.
     Johnson is currently facing serious charges and may face life imprisonment and awaiting his verdict behind bars. The University pledged to help in identifying the victims after the damning videos were seized from his room.
     This shocking news should startle readers into practicing safe XXX activity and to be careful of who they involve themselves with. The Gay Men Lifestyle should really change for the better or else cases such as this will be a common occurrence. Mind you this is just one that is exposed, we don't know how many others that are out there still undercover.
     Be careful People as we search for love and get our groove on....
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